Gaining

Can anyone relate?

Weight gain on my wife or in general is on my mind quite a bit. But it seems there are certain times where it kind of flares up to a more extreme in my life.

For example sometimes it is so strong that for several days and sometimes even weeks it is on my mind pretty intensely......like all the time.

Other times I definitely think about weight gain or am reminded by it on various occasions throughout the day but just not as intense. let's say I look over at my wife and I notice her clothes fitting snugger than usual....so of course my mind will race and get excited and I would visualize her gaining more etc. etc. But during the more intense times I am thinking about weight gain and Fat related stuff 24/7 in my mind.

I am not sure why....maybe someone who can relate can shed some light on this

I can certainly relate. My wife is over two hundred pounds. I adore her and her awesome figure. She has not been very careful lately about what she eats and doesn't seemed concerned about her weight as she has in the past. I have gained some weight in the last couple of years. I make no effort to hide my gain from her sticking out my belly and wearing tight briefs. She has added "treats" to the shopping cart lately and enjoys eating them as much as I do.
There are times when all I can think about too, is weight gain, on me, my wife or just women in general. Hand in there, were pulling for you!

Yep....during one of these intense times several years ago is when I decided to intentionally start gaining.

obviously because of that the intense feeling lasted even longer....lets say 5-6 months.

I can only imagine how intense and fun this fetish would be with someone actually the same as we are into this Fetish. I have often said if my wife was into mutual gaining I think we would both be huge!

That's Living the Dream. Now and then it happens. I remember a couple that met here and got married. Since I haven't seen either on for awhile I will not list their names.

I was going to add that I think about it all the time. It's almost a relief to get busy with a customer so I can concentrate on something else. Lol

Have you found that as you get older you prefer more weight on the women you like?

Also, do you find yourself having more kinks related along this fetish?

I find myself getting pretty into watching my wives appetite increase because I know the Lbs. will start piling on soon after. I guess some of these new kinks are because my weight gain talk and weight gain always increasing on my wife doesn't always happen....so as a void i find other little things I guess.

I agree with you. If my wife was into this fetish, we both would be enormous!
I have noticed that I now prefer bellies on women and large round bottoms. Earlier I was fascinated by pregnant bellies. Not so much now. I like the "permanence" of fat, rather pregnancy.

Yeah for sure.....many changes over time with this fetish.

I am into all my wives body parts fattening up...Thighs, Love handles, BELLY, butt, breasts......but when her upper arms start to really puff up and over inflate it really sends me into some kinda serious arousal. I guess that's because that is one of the last places her new gains shows up....but all of a sudden her upper arms inflate like overnight and they strain any outfits with sleeves that try to cover them. It's almost one day her clothes fit and the next it is totally obvious because her plump inflated arms can't even fit into her clothing....so damn sexy.

My wife, just recently went back on a vegetarian diet to lose some weight. This has of course upset me to no end. The last time this happened, around two years ago at new years (duh) I started gaining. My wife was out of town on a business trip starting on Tuesday of this week, well, I gorged myself and have gained five pounds, up to 218 lbs. I think this weight will stay too, as I lost some weight in March/April do to a medical issue. I'm going back actively gaining from maintaining, my wife loses weight, I gain!

It's amazing once your appetite increases and you gain a bunch of weight.....how easy it is to not only eat way larger portions but how you think about food and your next meal all the time. It's almost like you plan your day around your eating. Not to mention how really fattening food, fast food, deserts and snacks are almost a must.

Once you stretch out that belly and get used to eating a lot you feel like you can't stop!

Sexy....arousing and a bit scary sometimes all at once.

Just PLANNING a weight gain diet is sexy to me.